Recently, I heard an interview with Lutheran pastor Nadia Bolz-Webe. I thought she had a profound observation regarding church:
I think a lot of congregations have a situation where there are more people talking about God in the basement during the week; the basement of their church is more full of people talking honestly about their lives and connecting that with some kind of trust in God. I think that happens more frequently in their basements than it does in their sanctuaries. … You know what organization is not really having a problem is AA; it’s doing fine. They’re not in a crisis. There aren’t meetings in AA where they’re like, “How can we get people to start showing up more?” So I think that there’s something about people speaking honestly about their lives, and sometimes, I think, church is more about pretending your life is fine, and, I think, less and less people have time for that.
What is it we can do in our approach to youth ministry that strives to afflict to comfortable life is fine response and comfort those afflicted by honest and authentic?