Randy Raus of LifeTeen recently posted a larger list of suggestions, from a young person perspective as to Why I Just Stopped Coming to your Youth Group. You want to read the full post, but his list includes:
1. You are too predictable. It’s begun feel like “same old, same old.”
2. You don’t make me feel like I belong there. It’s like I am still a guest, especially if most folks don’t know my name . “dude or guy”.
3. You never challenge me anymore. I’ve been coming a while, and it seems as if I outgrew your message.
4. You don’t look like you are excited about your faith. If it is a burden for you, what do you expect will be attractive about it to me?